“Let God handle what you can’t handle!” FROM LOBBYIST & MINISTER A.W KHABIR-

If you are facing marital problems you probably are extremely weighted down and want your marriage restored the way “God” intended marriages to work.

If you ever thought of just throwing in the towel on your marraige, don’t. To you it might seem impossible to save your marriage. Turn it over to “God” so he can work on the restoration of your marraige. Do not be afraid. Trust in your Lord. God can bring good out of your marriage problems, trials or tribulations
that you are going through if you will obey the Lord.

Many pastors, associate pastors, counselors, pastors wives and attorneys sometimes say to a husband or a wife that they need let the spouse go.

A lot of marraiges that are going through separation one or both of the spouses are hurting and are ready to just throw in the towel. In the book of Mark 11:23, it says “for assuredly I say unto you, whosoever shall say unto this mountain (problem), be though removed and cast into the sea, and does not doubt in his heart, but believes that those things he says will be done. He shall have whatsoever he says.”

 

Turn it over and “Let God handle what you can’t handle”

I know this pain personally because I am going through separation and I want to restore my marriage. But I say to all experiencing separation and divorce and much more, my prayer is that you will learn to “Stop looking at your circumstances and listening to everyone else, and listen to your Holy Spirit, your greatest Counselor!”

 

 

And remember and stay focused on “God” and his Mark 11:23.

At be begining of stand for the restoration of my marriage I learned it was all about the power of God and God’s plan for my marriage and family.

I have even entered marital counseling on my own. I am going to stand for the restoration of my marriage as it is written in Mark 11:23. I will not date other women or commit adultery.

I am now using the energy of all those crying days and why me days, to get back to my studies of becoming an ordained minister and an attorney. I am Letting God handle what I can’t handle. I sray in constant prayer and say positive affirmations for the restoration of my marriage every hour.

 My testimony is, my wife walked out of the marraige three times. Prior to marrying her and being engaged she took off the ring four (4) times. And obviously I married her. I never, ever physically, mentally or financially abused my wife and never committeed adultery. But I was definitely over protective and mades some mistakes in other areas. but I have been a good provider to my wife. So will we are separated I guess we are probably both looking at our mistakes

I have no way to reach my wife who moved out of state and is living with relatives who use to be my in-laws now turned outlaws.

One day I went to sleep say the affirmation “I am blessed that my wife is calling me now.”

 

And the next day my wife called me.

She then called me again. Now even. though she is in pain and still angry, I just let her talk and don’t try and offer any negative feed back. I just listen and say I love you, miss you and need you.I am working with “God” to learn how to date my wife all over again, And it starts with listening to “God” and her. “God” will show her what she did wrong this I know for a fact.

Divorce is still an epidemic in our churches! My becoming a pastor was not by my design I had been running from “God” calling me for decades even though I new the bible extremely well and could break a scripture down for the young and the old to understand. This separation is giving me plenty of time to renew my focus back on “God” and his ministry for my life and let him handle my wife and her heart and mind. I really want to reachout as a pastor on a lot of levels but particularly on the level of marriages and restoration of marriages. I need to proclaim to others every day, God does heal hurting and dead marriages! 

 

What is the answer for your marriage, your future, your fears, and your hopelessness? Let me share a scripture that the Lord gave me at the beginning of my stand:

“I hate divorce,” which is found in Malachi 2:16. And the other scripture was, Mark 11:23, it says “for assuredly I say unto you, whosoever shall say unto this mountain (problem), be though removed and cast into the sea, and does not doubt in his heart, but believes that those things he says will be done. He shall have whatsoever he says.”

　

So I say to all readers “Let go and let God” deal with your husband or wife and all your marriage problems you may be facing right now. May I suggest that you get on your knees and lay all your problems before “God” and Let God handle what you can’t handle.

 
Surrender everything to your Lord for Him to handle them in His perfect will and way daily. Then ask the Lord to help you be a lighthouse wherever you may work or play.

Your Holy Spitrit is your preacher, teacher and shall teach all things about your situation and how to handle any aspect such as saying “I am Sorry.” So you have got to get into the word of “God” and stay their and think marriage restoration and write down positive marraige restoration affirmations and write down affirmations casting out the devil in your marriage and those relatives and friends that are working with the devil. And no matter what circumstances you see you job is to call your Mark 11:23 into existence and that is your restord married.

 

Todays pastors, ministers, priests or rabbis are God’s messengers to present the Gospel and to minister God’s Word to their flock of sheep. Due to their lack of knowledge of marriage restoration, there are some who have accepted divorce in their churches and are putting your marriage into a casket when the Lord is speaking marriage restoration, love, faith, hope and trust to you personally!

Again listen to what the Holy Spirit is speaking to you over and over again. Seek the Lord for His personal answer for your own covenant marriage. Remove all your doubt and unbelief and choose to believe for your marriage, your financial problems, for your teenagers’ problems and even for your own health problems?

Do not give up on your Lord God! Do not grumble and complain to your Lord about all your circumstances. He knows and sees everything. Allow Him to fight your daily
battles by you praying and “letting go and letting God” turn your circumstances around to good. You need to believe and deepen your faith, trust, knowledge and understanding of God’s mighty power which will help you pick up your cross and follow the Lord all the way to your marriage being restored.

 

Do not give up on your Lord God. Yes, you may be hurting and bleeding due to the attacks of the enemy, but cry out to your Lord. Stop saying why me Lord and stop looking at your circumstances.

Choose to surrender your will and way to His divine plan and purpose in your life and marriage.

Never give up on what the Lord can do for your marriage or someone else’s marriage you are praying for.

 In the future, be ready to share the power of your Lord Jesus Christ in restoring and rebuilding your marriage to many others if you will wait for your miracle of marriage restoration!

 

Remember the devils job is to kill, steal & destroy. And this means that the devil will use agents, such as family, friends, pastors, police and the courts/judges to try to defeat your marraige restoration.

But “God” says in malachi 2:16 “I hate divorce.”

So Let God handle what you can’t handle.
I will update this sermon as praise reports in my own life and restoration of my marraige take place.