Attention baby Lisa Irwin’s dad, Jeremy irwin, America is angry.
You, Jeremy Irwin have a chance to do something for your baby Lisa.
Thus far Jeremy, u have failed to protect in the truth & the past.
Deborah Bradley did not turn into an alcoholic one month ago who would drink “5 to 10 glasses of wine” with anti anxiety medicine on the very night her child was ‘kidnapped’ by a stranger who picked the right house, on the first and only night the father worked, and the only time a home could be entered through a window, unheard by a black lab mix and a baby monitor. Bradley was not likely ‘drunk’ that night; she has a high tolerance and that kind of drinking is a nightly habit to be developed over a long period of time. Bradley came from an alcoholic family and knows how to hold her liquor and Irwin knew it. Substance abuse and mothering doesn’t mix, as Jeremy Irwin well knows.
Jeremy Irwin, when asked who might have “done this” to Lisa said, “someone who cheated on her husband” revealing a likely bitterness of having been victimized by Deborah Bradley. It was a moment where he almost sounded like he was about to be a man. Almost.
Appearing hen pecked and dominated, Irwin said he would not be interviewed by police without Deborah Bradley by his side.
What? Are you kidding? You are a father and your daughter is missing and you will still be controlled by the very one you trusted to care for your daughter?
It gets worse.
Irwin cut short the police interview because he was “tired.”
This is a man?
This is a father?
Irwin refused to allow his older son, who heard and likely saw what happened, to be reinterviewed.
This is Lisa’s father?
Irwin knew of Bradley’s alcoholism and left his children in her care without seeking to protect them, and now the very worst has happened: every father who has fought to get his child away from a substance abusing mother fears this more than anything else; to have his child’s life snuffed out by the substance abuser.
For every guy who fought in court to save his child from a drunk or druggie mother, and lost, Jeremy Irwin represents everything that is wrong about men today.
Jeremy Irwin failed to protect Lisa from Deborah Bradley’s substance abuse, carefully repackaged as “adult time.” Was that the term given to Bradley by the Spin Team?
Jeremy Irwin has failed Lisa again, by withholding information from police and refusing to cooperate. In essence, he has chosen Deborah Bradley over Baby Lisa.
Irwin is the scorn of manhood in the nation as he is seen as a coward who softly mutters out his deceptive responses, attempting to be guided by Bradley and fearful of crossing or contradicting her. Did he check on the boys first and then go to Deborah? Did he enter the boys room to find them ‘sleeping’ but they did not hear anything because of the proximity of their room; no, wait, they were sleeping with Deborah and a cat, no wait…what’s that, Deborah? What should I say?…and the anger of a nation fretting over a beautiful little baby grows.
He is an embarrassment to his gender.
Jeremy Irwin does, however, have an opportunity to do the right thing for Baby Lisa.
Jeremy Irwin can finally be a man, and tell Bradley to shut up; tell the attorney to go back to Rome or New York, or whatever rock he crawled out from, send the goofy “wild Bill” packing, and go to the police, and give Baby Lisa the dignity of a burial she deserves.
Lisa did not ask to be born to these losers. She did not choose her mother and she did not choose her father. She did not care for her mother’s drama routines, and certainly didn’t ask for “adult time” for her mother. She likely disrupted her mother’s ‘adult time’ at 10:30PM that night, and learned what rage is. She only knew that she was sick, and wet, and in need of comfort from a mother who could put down the booze long enough to give her love. What she got, however, was nothing like love.
Ashamed should be the man who is dominated into silence while police spent countless hours going through mud looking for his baby girl. Ashamed should be the man, who calls himself “father” but allows himself to be bullied by callous, self serving men like Tacopina and Stanton, who will do and say anything, no matter how outrageous, to get their names in the press. Ashamed is the man who says he is ‘tired’ from answering questions and will not sacrifice even a bit of fatigue, for his little girl. Ashamed is the man who lets a fast talking, money grabbing, fame seeking exploiter to show up from out of town and bark out orders. Your child is missing: it is not an attorney you need.
Would you want the man who defended Joran Van Der Sloot to be advising you about your little girl?
Jeremy Irwin has failed to protect his children, and now, Lisa, specifically, has paid the price of his abdication.
He has a chance to man up here, silence the money and headline grabbing mercenaries, go down to the police station and tell them what Bradley told him, and how he can bring his daughter home, to be laid at rest with the dignity of having been created in the Image of God. He has an opportunity to exert strength, perhaps for the first time in his life, and do that which is right.
Jeremy Irwin has an opportunity to be a man today. If masculinity is the sacrifice of strength for righteous ends, Irwin has been afforded, perhaps, one last chance in life. It has now been one month and the anger of the nation grows.
Lisa deserves to have a father and here is the chance; late, yes, but one last chance.
Be a man, tell the truth, and tell the ghouls who would have you sell photos and interviews and lies, where to go.
Jeremy, does not Lisa deserve to come home to rest?
You have the rest of your life to live with this; so at least, this one time, stand up for her. Maybe it will be this one act of manhood that lets you sleep at night as the years go by, and you consider the life that Lisa never had; the love, the laughter, the holidays, the education…all the things you wanted for her.
Perhaps getting up this morning, and marching down to the Kansas City police department, for Lisa, will be what lets you go one to face tomorrow.
